The Love Story, Land of Synchronicity, Beginning of the Whole Journey


Somewhere around Winter Solstice 2014, I have experienced something that could be described as Full Blown Kundalini Awakening- the most profound and life changing experience of my life. It’s now Feb 29th, 2016. Over a year has passed since my kundalini awakening and I feel finally ready to share some reflections about my journey. A year ago I officially announced myself as an awakened spirit. I felt slightly nervous back then, feeling unsure of what was ahead of me. I had a slight precognition of the difficult times ahead and I wasn’t wrong about this.

Kundalini could be best described as a flame that ignites your body and mind, like a powerful flame torch that burns everything. On the physical level it made me feel a lot more powerful. During first few months I was in a constant state of euphoria, with slight (or sometimes strong) visual and auditory hallucinations. It reminded me a light LSD trip. My general stamina and physical fitness improved massively. I felt an increased need for exercise- mostly cycling which was my long term hobby. I have also started to learn fire spinning, in particular the contact staff. Physical fire is a nice metaphor- just like the kundalini itself it is wild and unpredictable. If you’re not careful you can burn yourself. It is through the still mind and concentration that you learn how to play with it. If you want your mind to be flexible you need a strong root in your body. Physical exercise is crucial for me.

As my body strengthened, my confidence went up. My movements, gestures and posture changed significantly.  I’ve gained a strong sense of inner power that is ever present with me. People’s attitude towards me changed as well. I got treated with respect although I have occasionally aroused sudden outburst of aggression in others. I will discuss them in more details as I continue to describe my journey. I have also noticed significant increase in my sex drive and I’ve started to attract younger men. I’ve often felt like alive manifestation of Child Horus- bold and strong and really young still.

On the mental level- my journey took the most unexpected turn. After a few months of the constant rise and deep spiritual insights last spring (2015) I’ve become a bit of a decadent. It was almost as though my mind decided to enjoy its new care-free state and wanted to play. It felt like some past karma suddenly activated in my system. Over a decade ago I wanted to become a rockstar. It was a childish dream about life full of parties and adventures and it ended with a huge disappointment. For a few years afterward I felt really down. I lost faith in my dreams. Later on I got interested in Buddhism and the whole “lack of desire” idea. I lead a simple quiet life and I got convinced it wP1420549as all I needed. I was happy to some extent only often overtaken by waves of nostalgia. Since 2011 my need for for adventures began to grow. By 2015 things went a bit mad. A sudden sense of power awakened with the rise of kundalini gave me a new fresh outlook on life. New opportunities opened up in front of me. Life full of sex and drugs was obtainable to me once again I got completely indulged in it. Hardly what you expect from the “spiritual master” to say the least. However for a Thelemite of a sort it seems like a predictable course…


Before I move onto the description of the more recent events I still need to tell you more about my connection with Aariel, one of the old Kia agents, who became my online friend a few weeks before my kundalini awakened. It’s a strange twisted and sad love story that started all of the later madness.  I am quite confident now that he is not going to go back to Kia and even if he does he’s going to use different name. Therefore I feel less reluctant to share details of our story.

The night of my awakening- First synchronicity

On the night of my awakening (around the Winter Solstice 2014, don’t have an exact date) Aariel and I were chatting through facebook when I suddenly started to fall into trance. I was overcome by a wave of laughter and shivers and I started to feel a little uneasy. I asked him to stay up with me and support me, especially as it was very late and I had to go to work the next day. I felt as though my mind was invaded/overtaken by some entities from the outer space. Some of them introduced themselves as the Secret Chiefs.

At the same time Aariel was also in a trance receiving “messages from Sirius” as he described them.  We were both a bit incoherent and my memory of it all is quite vague*. All I remember is feeling very confused and detached. I wasn’t even sure where I was.

I told Aariel- “I am being replaced by one of the Great Chiefs (Secret Chiefs)”

And then I asked
-“Can you sing one of your mantras for me?” (mantra was his favourite magical tool. Somehow I thought it would calm me down even though I wouldn’t be able to hear it. We didn’t use a video call.)

He replied  -“You have become the mantra. Its secret, as chiefs are. But if you listen to your inner voice closely you will hear me calling across the astral distances. Or are we already together on the astral plane?”

I replied- “Fuck knows where we are now. I will try to focus- Who am I talking to?” (meaning asking him who he was)

He replied the – “To the elements. To the earth, air, water, fire. And the great spirit. But you are also talking to nothingness. I am ultimately nothingness.
Its so cool to snuff out all thoughts and desires and just become nothing.
I’m afraid Romans are intercepting our messages and we will both get crucified.
I sometimes imagine you to be all the elements and that you surround me everywhere I go”

I asked- “Who are you referring to?”

-Aariel replied; “Whoever inhabits your body right now”.

-The answer arrived “My name is Ra- Hoor- Khuit”.

Ra-Hoor-Khuit is one of the Thelemic three core deities. Thelema was a philosophy I followed during my late teens and early twenties- the same time I had a band and the same time I felt a strong affinity with Odin. I was intrigued, wondering why Ra-Hoor-Khuit suddenly popped into my consciousness. Their presence was absent from my life for years. The very same night, a few hours later I randomly typed up Heru Ra Ha  into google and the first thing that came up was the Tantric Thelema book by Sam Wesbster. Parts of it are available online and for anyone interested I would recommend your own research into the symbols described in there and their meaning. What blew my mind back then was the fact this book combined two of my favourite magical philosophies- Thelema and Buddhism. I felt as though someone handed me a missing link, the last bit of a puzzle needed to unlock my full potential. It was also a sudden reminder of Tantra which has become my main focus in magick since that day.

My very dialogue with Aariel from that night was also surprisingly Tantric in its nature, especially his mentioning of myself as the mantra. Mantra was a magical tool associated with goddess Tara.  Later on Aariel admitted he created a mantra about me, visualising me as the four elements surrounding him from all directions. He said that this way I’ve become a manifestation of the goddess present with him every day so he was never going to feel lonely…**

Two major synchronicities were present in here:

1.)  First one is to do with my visions and dreams. In 2010 when Aariel (under name Kiakitiki) and I first started to communicate through Kia I received a few strange visions of a young elf. He came to horusme in my dreams but sometimes also in my waking state. He introduced himself as my private alien guide (or HGA) from my past, who’s name was Akan. I had doubts about this elf’s identity as he seemed very sexual and Akan was never erotic in his nature. Anyway the mysterious Akan-elf told me that was going to lead me to the alchemical wedding (a Rosicrucian term). He said “Invoke me every day of your life and you’ll never feel lonely”.***  That’s an outstanding synchronicity provided the fact Aariel actually wanted to contact me at the time. Obviously he never knew anything about my elf visions but he later confirmed an elf to be one of his magical identities he used during the astral travels.

My contact with the elf in 2010 lasted for a few weeks. Soon after I was overcome by some serious doubts. The elf disappeared and I dismissed the whole thing and forgot about it for years. Soon after that Kiakitiki disappeared as well. He came back to Kia under the new name- Aariel and I had no idea he was the same person although I recognised him as soon as he mentioned his homeland to be Croatia (end of 2014). What’s even more interesting is is the fact Kiakitiki changed his name to Aariel. Aariel/Ariel is a name of an archangel connected with an element of earth. One of his possible manifestations is a forest elf. Aariel himself never knew that when he chose the name. It was me who fed him that information and he was very surprised…! In other words our magick selves got somehow entangled back in 2010 and it took over four years for this contact to manifest on the physical plane…

2.)  Second, equally breathtaking synchronicity is the nature of the mantra Aariel created. First of all he created it a few weeks prior to my awakening, when we started to chat through facebook and he felt very exited. He said he created a mantra in order to “call my spirit into his life”. I don’t know much more about the mantra itself but it doesn’t take much to deduce it was a kind of a love spell. And it worked. We fell in love with each other. On top of that I need to emphasize the fact Aariel was totally unfamiliar with Eastern philosophies. Whatever his understanding of mantra was, it was totally intuitive. Meanwhile as soon as I obtained the copy of the Tantric Thelema book I found a very similar meditations in there- a mantra of four syllables representing four elements. During Tantric meditation designed by Sam Webster the elements dissolve in the body of Nuit- the Great Void or as some could say nothingness. Nuit as Infinite space is not exactly the same as nothing but these two concepts are closely related. As I said I don’t know the details of the mantra Aariel created as I have never seen it or heard it. English is not his first language so it is hard to say whether he really meant nothingness or the void. Sadly Aariel is no longer with us to share it.

In later months of our contact topic of this mantra became a source of my major annoyance. I’ve became convinced that it was partially this mantra that caused my kundalini awakening. Aariel was not comfortable with this idea and didn’t want any credit for it. It is a shame as it could have been a very important record of magical workings.




*What’s more intriguing, I’ve tried to copy our dialogue from its original place on facebook and paste it into a word document so I could have it saved somewhere. I tried to do that over twenty times.  The file got corrupted every single time until I finally gave up and had to type it up manually.

** In Tantra Shiakti is associated with the matter, the world of the elements whilst Shiva is the spirit, the static element. Aariel never knew that.

*** Wondering what the Kia Abramelist crew could tell me about this…




11 thoughts on “The Love Story, Land of Synchronicity, Beginning of the Whole Journey

  1. Another mystery surrounds the meaning of the Romans in Aariel’s visions. I know he experienced series of synchronicities related to the Roman Empire and its influence on the culture of Croatia. I don’t know any more details of it. What I find curious in here is an idea that the Romans were going to get us crucified…?? Crucifixion is again a Rosicrucian term and I will come back to it when describing my further journey. Whoever the mysterious Romans were I have a feeling it was a Dweller on the Treshold phenomenon ( )

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  2. “Invoke me every day of your life and you’ll never feel lonely.” Sounds about right.

    Romantic relationships can be used to channel HGA and to connect with them. Perhaps you tried and it didn’t quite work due to the unstable nature of the relationship you attempted it through.

    I highly recommend reading Ida Cradock’s ‘Heavenly Bridegrooms’ to anyone interested in the HGA. It still seems one of the most insightful examinations of the relationship out there. It is a bit dated but still a mandatory reading.

    From my personal experience and from what I heard about HGA related accounts, these entities will patiently try to get in touch with the individual they chose (or are chosen by). The experience of them is a surprisingly common occurrence even between totally uninitiated individuals. They might communicate through dreams, synchronicities and directly through telepathy and downloads of information. Kundalini awakening is an important prerequisite to form a relationship with HGA. It seems that it is not enough by itself. HGAs respect individuality and your right to not open up to them. If you want to develop a relationship you will have to build it up. If you believe your HGA is reaching out to you then I suggest you get to work! Otherwise more difficult times are sure to follow!

    As regards Ariel I hope you have his consent to speak about all this publicly!? It would be interesting to know why you think that his mantra had something to do with your awakening. You are talking about personal body energy after all. I understand his reluctance in acknowledging the connection since answers need to be found within not without.

    It might be a misconception on my part but it does sounds like you mentally projected your HGA onto Ariel. If true it would mean that your relationship with Ariel was based on an illusion and was a misplacement of inner desire to connect to your HGA. It could not have been very nice either to Ariel or to your HGA so I hope I am simply wrong about it.

    I hope that by saying “Sadly Aariel is no longer with us to share it.” you mean that he is not on KIA and not that he is dead.

    I would love to know what were these messages from Sirius about! Would you be willing to share them?

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  3. Thanks for your reply Dana. Many things you mentioned in your response are true and I am going to write more blogs with further reflections on the subject. One article is pretty much ready. I just wanted to leave some space between posting them.
    Coming back to Aariels’s consent- it was a difficult decision for me to make and one of the reasons why I was reluctant to share our story before.
    Throughout our relationship I asked him about that a good few times- asking what details I was allowed to disclose and he always replied- “do as you wish”. I wasn’t totally sure he understood the actual consequences of this. Therefore I have to rely on my own intuition. Since I believe other magicians could learn something from my story I am doing it for the greater good so to speak.

    To answer your question about the mantra- I will come back to this in my next blog. Overall though my conviction is based on the feeling/ sensation more than anything. Aariel was a huge fan of Apophenia. It is possible that it was a partial coincidence, that some energies used his mantra to reach me. That would explain why he didn’t want any credit for it. However it would be interesting to know how the mantra was formed. Aariel had a very well developed intuition and most of his magick was intuitive.

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  4. As regards Aariel being dead- I hope not although I don’t know that for sure. I meant he’s no longer with us on Kia, Lol

    As regards projecting HGA onto other people. That’s a very common phenomenon. Kenneth Grant described it as a “secret lover”. In Tantra this is allowed as long as you’re still aware that your lover has his own personality and he’s “just” a human. I was fully aware of that. If anything it was Aariel who got carried away. The longer he knew me the more disappointed he was as I didn’t match his expectations of me

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  5. I don’t know what the messages.from Sirius were about. Aaeriel kept himself very secretive. That’s also a reason why i believe that whatever little details in know he wouldn’t mind me to share it with you agents

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  6. I’m reminded of an article in an old Talking Stick magazine by Gerald Suster. In it he discusses the phenomenon of ‘The Messenger’. The basic idea is that the messenger can speak through any means available, an unwitting person whose meaning was something entirely different, a chance phrase overheard on the radio, or TV or whilst overhearing something at the bus stop. The commonality is that when confronted the person that passed the message will deny that this is what they meant. Because the recognition of the message happed from within the magician. The person the messenger acted through actually meant something else…

    Not all of his examples were so mundane, and of

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  7. Not all of his examples were so mundane, and of…

    Oops! Didn’t meant to leave that bit in. But I did. I was going to add that not all of Gerald’s examples were of non-magical folk. Some of his ‘messengers’ were other occultists.

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  8. Anton- yes I’ve heard about this before. Sam Webster recommended to perceive every phenomenon as a direct contact between the divine and your “soul”. I think that’s an alternative way to approach your HGA- not as an entity but as your surroundings, bit like what Aariel did in his mantra

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